The Guide to Dating a Japanese guy: Step your game up with 5 useful tips!

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  • It may not come as a big surprise if you want to date a Japanese guy. As we all know, they are known as being shy, respectful, hardworking and not to mention that they are cute and humble, because of that it is not shocking that many girls would like to go out with one of them. In this article, taking in consideration my experience and observations, I will name some of the qualities that you should possess to win the heart of a Japanese man.

    1. Take care of your skin

    Having beautiful skin is considered to be epitome of beauty in Japan as it signifies youth and purity. No wonder that beauty products for skin can be found everywhere in Japan.

    Also, you may notice a lot of Japanese ladies using UV cut shirts, lots of UV protection and umbrellas during summer. UV can indeed be very bad for the skin and in Japan, bright skin has been very popular between both males and females so I would recommend to pay extra attention to it and never forget using the sun screen.

    If you want to be popular among Japanese men, take care of your skin!

    2. Petite and slim

    Most Japanese men would normally prefer a lady with a smaller frame.. They are very particular about weight and as you may know, the Japanese standards for weight are quite exaggerate as with a height of 1,59 cm, for example and a weight of 50 kg is still considered fat in Japan.

    But if you think you don’t possess this quality, well there are a lot of tips out there that you can follow! As the saying goes “You don’t have to eat less, you have to eat right”. Maintain a healthy diet and you are good to go!

    3. Make a move

    Japanese guys are by nature shy. They usually don’t say what’s on their mind, especially if you just met not so long ago. The tip here is if you meet someone that you like, try maintain an eye contact and try to ask some questions, also be a good listener. Prepare a good topic for a chitchat and before you part with him get his contact details.

    That way, before you know it you are already preparing your new dress and a pair of shoes for your first date with him!

    4. Respect and understand the culture

    If you are non-Japanese you should always bear in mind this important part, because the culture can be totally different from any other country. Who knows, you might have done something that would hurt his feelings without even knowing about it!

    Remember to respect his culture and if there is any misunderstanding, properly talk to him about your feelings as in a relationship where two cultures and different perspectives are involved, I believe that communication holds the key to a good relationship.

    5. Be feminine

    Japanese guys are attracted to the girls who act like ladies. Actually almost all of the boys around the world are like that. If you just met your Japanese guy, impress him with some smooth ladylike gestures!

    It’s never wrong to put extra effort for someone you like, but make sure that your intentions are true and pure, and your heart really belongs to him. However in the long run these tips will not be effective if you don’t do it from your heart. Do it if your heart desires it, don’t pretend to be somebody else. Who knows, you might be hearing “Let’s go out” from your crush very soon!

    *Featured Image: anneoyingaf Instagram

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    1. Anonymous says:

      hahahaha. my bf doesnt care i am a feminine or not.. i respect and love their culture..

    2. Anonymous says:

      Hahaha..I think.I’m.a japanese type.maybe interesting to read all this info..but anyway japanese guy likes cute girls ..almost small girls ..white skin and mostly they say big eyes ..sometimes they looking their same figure ..

    3. Anonymous says:

      Sad. So it means the Japanese guy i will meet this August would not like me in person. I have pimples and im chubby. He knows about it but by reading this i’m a bit disappointed knowing that they like this kind of a girl. Thanks for the info.

      1. Anonymous says:

        This article generalizes the typical japanese male, but it doesnt mean that all of them are like this. Japanese men, well, men from any country, have specific preferences. Like maybe big boobs, or long legs and such. I know japanese guys who like curvy girls. And my husband is japanese, and he was never that concerned about being lady-like. Lol!

        I’m sure the guy you will be meeting will like you as you.

      2. mel says:

        Don’t feel down just because of an article. I’m very sure that he will like you for you. Japanese guys are not all about physical features (i think all guys). It all boils down to personality and character. :)

      3. Luka-Michaela says:

        Nah, this is more based on an infamous article. Japanese guys are like normal guys, they have preferences. Watch Texan in Tokyo. She married a Japanese man and she’s not all that thin. I hope you and your guy work out!

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